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Context No. 2036 of 4322 · Proverbs

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Proverbs 16:17-33: in context

17The highway of the upright is to depart from evil. He who keeps his way preserves his soul. 18Pride goes before destruction, and an arrogant spirit before a fall. 19It is better to be of a lowly spirit with the poor, than to divide the plunder with the proud. 20He who heeds the Word finds prosperity. Whoever trusts in the LORD is blessed. 21The wise in heart shall be called prudent. Pleasantness of the lips promotes instruction. 22Understanding is a fountain of life to one who has it, but the punishment of fools is their folly. 23The heart of the wise instructs his mouth, and adds learning to his lips. 24Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones. 25There is a way which seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death. 26The appetite of the laboring man labors for him, for his mouth urges him on. 27A worthless man devises mischief. His speech is like a scorching fire. 28A perverse man stirs up strife. A whisperer separates close friends. 29A man of violence entices his neighbor, and leads him in a way that is not good. 30One who winks his eyes to plot perversities, one who compresses his lips, is bent on evil. 31Gray hair is a crown of glory. It is attained by a life of righteousness. 32One who is slow to anger is better than the mighty; one who rules his spirit, than he who takes a city. 33The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the LORD.

Among this cluster of proverbs comes one that redefines strength: one who is slow to anger is better than the strong, and one who rules his own spirit than one who takes a city. The world measures strength by conquest, by the ability to overcome others, to capture cities, to prevail by force. This proverb measures it differently: the truer strength is the mastery of oneself, the ruling of one's own spirit and temper, which is a greater thing than any outward victory over others.

The proverb sets two kinds of strength side by side and declares which is greater. There is the strength that takes a city, that overcomes enemies, that prevails by force over others, the strength the world admires and celebrates. And there is the quieter strength of ruling one's own spirit, of being slow to anger, of mastering one's own temper and impulses. The proverb says the second is greater: better to rule one's own spirit than to capture a city. The hardest and most valuable conquest is not over others but over oneself. This reorders our sense of what strength is. We tend to admire the outward victories, the achievements over others and circumstances, and to overlook the inner mastery that this proverb prizes. But the one who cannot govern his own temper, who is ruled by his anger and impulses, is, for all his outward achievements, not truly strong; he is like a city broken down and without walls, exposed, ungoverned. And the one who has learned to rule his own spirit, to be slow to anger, to master his impulses, has won a harder and greater victory than any conquest of others. This inner strength is not showy; it wins no acclaim; but it is the strength the proverb calls greater than taking a city. And it is not a merely natural achievement but a work of God's Spirit in us. The fruit of the Spirit, Paul says, includes self-control; the ruling of one's own spirit is something God grows in those who are his. This calls us to value and pursue the inner mastery over the outward victory. Rather than measuring our strength by what we achieve over others and circumstances, we might ask whether we can govern ourselves, whether we are slow to anger, whether we rule our own spirit or are ruled by it. The harder and greater conquest is the one over ourselves; and to be slow to anger, to master one's own temper, to rule one's spirit, is a strength greater than taking a city, and a work God is pleased to grow in us.

Do I measure strength by outward achievements and victories over others while overlooking the harder conquest of myself, and can I take to heart the proverb that one who is slow to anger and rules his own spirit is stronger than one who takes a city, seeking from God the inner mastery over my temper and impulses that is a greater strength than any outward victory?

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