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Reflection No. 3096 of 4322

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2 Kings 8:25-29: a reflection

25In the twelfth year of Joram the son of Ahab king of Israel, Ahaziah the son of Jehoram king of Judah began to reign. 26Ahaziah was twenty-two years old when he began to reign; and he reigned one year in Jerusalem. His mother’s name was Athaliah the daughter of Omri king of Israel. 27He walked in the way of Ahab’s house and did that which was evil in the LORD’s sight, as did Ahab’s house, for he was the son-in-law of Ahab’s house. 28He went with Joram the son of Ahab to war against Hazael king of Syria at Ramoth Gilead, and the Syrians wounded Joram. 29King Joram returned to be healed in Jezreel from the wounds which the Syrians had given him at Ramah, when he fought against Hazael king of Syria. Ahaziah the son of Jehoram, king of Judah, went down to see Joram the son of Ahab in Jezreel, because he was sick.

The brief account of King Ahaziah of Judah traces his evil to a corrupting influence: he was bound by marriage to the house of Ahab, and he walked in their ways. He walked in the way of Ahab's house and did that which was evil in the LORD's sight, as did Ahab's house, for he was the son-in-law of Ahab's house. Ahaziah's wickedness is directly connected to his close alliance with a wicked family; joined to the house of Ahab, he took on their ways, was shaped by their example, followed their evil. The company he was bound to corrupted him. This shows the shaping influence of our close associations: we tend to become like those we join ourselves to, take on their ways, follow their example. To be closely bound to corrupting company is to be shaped toward its corruption. The associations we form work on us, for good or ill; bad company can shape us toward evil.

Notice the connection the account draws: Ahaziah did evil because he was joined to the house of Ahab. His wickedness is not presented as arising in a vacuum; it is tied to his close alliance with a corrupt family. Bound to Ahab's house by marriage, he walked in their ways, took on their evil, was shaped by their example. This illustrates the shaping power of our close associations. We are influenced by those we join ourselves to; their ways rub off on us, their example draws us, their values become ours. To be closely bound to corrupting company is to be pulled toward its corruption, often without our fully noticing. This does not excuse Ahaziah; but it warns us of the real influence of the company we keep. The friends we choose, the families we join, the circles we move in, shape us, for better or worse. Bad associations can corrupt good intentions; the company we keep works on us. To guard against corrupting influence is to be mindful of whom we bind ourselves to. Our closest associations shape us more than we may realize.

That is worth taking to heart, for our close associations shape us, and bad company can corrupt us toward evil. We can underestimate the influence of the company we keep, the friends we choose, the circles we bind ourselves to, assuming we can keep corrupting company without being shaped by it; but Ahaziah, joined to the house of Ahab, walked in their evil ways. The associations we form work on us, for good or ill; bad company can shape us toward corruption. There is wisdom in being mindful of whom we bind ourselves closely to. Do not underestimate the shaping influence of your close associations; bad company can corrupt you, as Ahaziah was corrupted by the house of Ahab. Be mindful of the shaping influence of your close associations, for bad company can corrupt you toward evil, as Ahaziah, bound by marriage to the house of Ahab, walked in their wicked ways; for the company we keep works on us, for good or ill, and we tend to become like those we join ourselves to, taking on their ways and following their example, so that to guard against corrupting influence is to be mindful of whom we bind ourselves to and to choose our closest associations with care.

Lord, the brief account of King Ahaziah of Judah traces his evil to a corrupting influence: he was bound by marriage to the house of Ahab, and he walked in their ways. He walked in the way of Ahab's house and did that which was evil in the LORD's sight, as did Ahab's house, for he was the son-in-law of Ahab's house. Ahaziah's wickedness is directly connected to his close alliance with a wicked family; joined to the house of Ahab, he took on their ways, was shaped by their example. The company he was bound to corrupted him. Show me the connection the account draws: Ahaziah did evil because he was joined to the house of Ahab. His wickedness is not presented as arising in a vacuum; it is tied to his close alliance with a corrupt family. Bound to Ahab's house, he walked in their ways, was shaped by their example. This illustrates the shaping power of our close associations. I am influenced by those I join myself to; their ways rub off on me, their example draws me. To be closely bound to corrupting company is to be pulled toward its corruption, often without my fully noticing. The friends I choose, the circles I move in, shape me. Take that to my heart, for my close associations shape me, and bad company can corrupt me toward evil. I can underestimate the influence of the company I keep, assuming I can keep corrupting company without being shaped by it; but Ahaziah, joined to the house of Ahab, walked in their evil ways. There is wisdom in being mindful of whom I bind myself closely to. Keep me from underestimating the shaping influence of my close associations; help me be mindful of whom I bind myself to, Lord, and choose my closest associations with care, for bad company can corrupt me, as Ahaziah was corrupted by the house of Ahab.