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Reflection No. 867 of 4322

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Deuteronomy 25:1-6: a reflection

1If there is a controversy between men, and they come to judgment and the judges judge them, then they shall justify the righteous and condemn the wicked. 2It shall be, if the wicked man is worthy to be beaten, that the judge shall cause him to lie down and to be beaten before his face, according to his wickedness, by number. 3He may sentence him to no more than forty stripes. He shall not give more, lest if he should give more and beat him more than that many stripes, then your brother will be degraded in your sight. 4You shall not muzzle the ox when he treads out the grain. 5If brothers dwell together, and one of them dies and has no son, the wife of the dead shall not be married outside to a stranger. Her husband’s brother shall go in to her, and take her as his wife, and perform the duty of a husband’s brother to her. 6It shall be that the firstborn whom she bears shall succeed in the name of his brother who is dead, that his name not be blotted out of Israel.

Among the laws of Israel is one that limits punishment: a guilty man sentenced to be beaten could receive up to forty lashes, but no more, lest, the law says, your brother be degraded in your sight. Even a lawful punishment had a limit, set precisely to guard the dignity of the offender, so that he would not be humiliated beyond what justice required. The guilty man was still a brother, and even in his punishment, his human dignity was to be protected.

Notice the tender concern in this law: the offender's dignity mattered, even in his discipline. Justice was to be done, but not in a way that degraded the person, that stripped him of his humanity. The limit on the lashes was mercy built into justice, a guard against the cruelty that would humiliate a person beyond what was just. Even the guilty, even those being punished, retained a dignity that was to be respected.

That concern speaks to how we treat those who fail or do wrong. It is easy, when someone has done wrong, to feel that their dignity no longer matters, to degrade and humiliate them, to treat justice as license for cruelty. But God's law insists that even the guilty remain human, still a brother, whose dignity is to be guarded even in correction. When you must correct or hold someone accountable, do so without degrading them; guard their dignity even as you address their wrong. And more broadly, treat even those who have failed as people who still bear God's image, deserving of dignity. Justice and dignity belong together; do not let holding someone accountable become an excuse to humiliate them.

Lord, your law limited the punishment of even a guilty man, lest your brother be degraded, guarding the offender's dignity even in his discipline. Teach me that same regard. It is easy, when someone has done wrong, to feel that their dignity no longer matters, to degrade and humiliate them, to treat justice as license for cruelty. Keep me from that. Help me to see that even the guilty remain human, still my brother or sister, still bearing your image, whose dignity is to be respected even in correction. When I must hold someone accountable, help me do so without degrading them. Let justice and dignity go together in me, and never let holding someone to account become an excuse to humiliate them.